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What is True Self Sufficiency?

March 3, 2016 · In: homesteading, prepping

 

I’ve been on this “homesteading” journey for a few years now. I’m not nearly where I want to be, at all. You can read what my Ultimate Homestead Dream is in another blog post. Homesteading truly is a journey. You have to start somewhere. Some of us want to dive in head first all at once, but that’s just not possible for everyone, like us. I’d love to have it altogether, but the reality is that I don’t.
So for now, I’ll bloom where I’m planted, and make the best of what I do have to work with.
But the question begs to be asked…
What is True Self Sufficiency?
What does it look like?
What does it feel like?
It’s a question I ask myself, and a truth that I remind myself of often.
We are not completely self-sufficient yet, and we aren’t anywhere close to being completely self-sufficient yet. But it’s one of my goals. No, we aren’t going “off-grid”. No, we aren’t “preppers”, though I’ll touch on the different types of “preppers” there are, and your mind will be blown! And there’s nothing wrong with living off-grid or prepping.
So, what is true self sufficiency?
 
 
Feeding yourself completely off of your land and/or sourcing some food from a fellow farmer/homesteader
Believe it or not, even our grandparents didn’t always “grow it all” and “do it all”. Let’s get real for a second. Most of our previous generations depended on the homesteading community to survive. One family excelled in growing wheat while another excelled in vegetables. They traded off goods and services. It was true community. My generation either needs to understand that you’d literally have to work your fingers off in order to “do it all”, or you’ll have to outsource some of your food products. Does this mean from a grocery store? No, that’s not what I mean. True self-sufficiency isn’t relying on the grocery store for what you don’t grow. It’s relying on the community, farmer’s markets, other homesteaders and farmers, for what you can’t or don’t grow or make. Why is that true self sufficiency? Because you aren’t putting your money towards a commercialized business that spreads a thin layer of income over farmers across the world. You are literally pouring money back into your local economy, and essentially, right back into your own wallet.
Breeding your animals for consumption or use, not continuously buying/renting them

For example, if you are breeding rabbits for meat, being truly self-sufficient means you aren’t going out and buying new rabbits for meat consumption. And besides, ew. I want to know where my meat comes from, not just buy it off craigslist.

It means you sit down, have a plan, get your rabbit herd together, and then start breeding your own meat. Sure, breeders die. But that doesn’t mean you have to go get a new one. This means you plan ahead and hold back certain babies from litters so that you can better your lineage and be sustainable. This can easily be done by starting with pedigreed rabbits that come from several different lineages. Knowing the animal and where it came from is half the battle.

The same goes for any animal that you are using for consumption, product, or work. Once you have established your herd or breed, the only time you should be adding new blood into the breeding system is to better your lineage and offspring. This doesn’t necessarily need to be done every single year. Studding out animals is a long time tradition, but it can get expensive. If you have a way to hold back animals, that’s the best self sufficiency option. However, finding another local homesteader who you can trade services with is a great option too.
 

 

 

 

Preserving your harvest
I like to call this the original “prepping”. It’s not what today’s modern society calls “prepping”. It truly is just preserving your harvest from that year. If that defines you as a “prepper”, then society is wrong. I’d like to be referred to as just a smart homesteader trying to live like the older generations.
One of your greatest steps into true self-sufficiency goes hand in hand with gardening or sourcing food from a fellow farmer. You’re going to need to preserve this food, because whether you like it or not, if you don’t have a working green house, you’re not going to be able to grow your food all year long.
This means you learn how to can vegetables, fruit, and meat. It means you learn how to cure meat and other goodies. You create a space for keeping your preserved items, and you utilize them all year long.
 
Herbal remedies and natural living
 
If you’re going to be self-sufficient, then you’re going to need to learn how to take care of yourself. They were healthier because they ate real food. Our ancestors were healthier than we are now, because they did live off of their land and treat themselves. They didn’t run off to find a doctor when they had a common cold. Now, granted, there were certainly deaths from illnesses, but most of them were from impoverished villages or from people already dealing with other ailments. Or simply because they didn’t take care of themselves to begin with.
This is one of the biggest journey’s that I am currently on. One of my main goals this year is to be so self-sufficient in herbal remedies and natural living, that I will, ideally, never have to take my family to the doctor. The reality is that when you live a healthy lifestyle to begin with, you should rarely get sick or have a serious ailment. However, this goes far beyond that. What if my child falls and needs stitches? Clearly, I’m going to rush him to the ER if it’s something serious. But if it’s a cut on his knee that just needs stitching…I can do that at home.
Learning herbal remedies is a necessity in true self-sufficiency. I might ruffle feathers here, but this means you cannot completely rely on essential oils. Sorry, you just can’t. While EOs are ancient remedies, have you learned how to make them yourself yet? Do you personally know anyone making them? I don’t, and I doubt most others do either. It is easier, and healthier for you, in true self-sufficiency to rely heavily on herbal remedies rather than EOs. It is easier to grow herbs and make tinctures than it is to rely on EOs. With that said, a healthy relationship through self-sufficiency with EOs would look something like this—a fellow homesteader makes homemade EOs, and you trade them in dried herbs or pay for their goods.

We have become much too reliant on EOs, and throw our money at large companies praising them for the “best EOs in the entire world”. But if you don’t know what else is out there, how can you make that assumption? If you, yourself, don’t even know how an EO is made, you cannot falsely claim these statements.

Working and living without debt

This is a big one for a lot of people. Becoming self-sufficient should mean you don’t have to rely on bank loans and debt to live your life. Therefore, you work towards paying off all debt. Being truly self-sufficient means you have zero debt, or at least in a perfect world. However, most of us have mortgages to pay. With that said, people are doing it. People are building their own homes over a year or two time period, just so they don’t have a “mortgage” to pay every month. I don’t think we will ever be there. Our goal is to purchase a larger piece of land, and my husband will build our home, but I think we will always have that mortgage debt for at least a few years.

The other side of this is learning how to work. There are a lot of people who will still continue the daily grind of an office job, etc. Yes, that’s an honest living. But will you have time for that once you are truly self-sufficient?  This is where your working skills comes into play. Having a skill that you can offer to others is essential. Can you build things? Can you help others in some way? Or maybe you’ve become so self sufficient that you can buy, sell, and trade straight from your homestead?

Either way, work and living without debt is a major part of being truly self-sufficient.

Off-Grid vs. Modern Homesteading

Do you have to live off-grid to be completely self sufficient? That’s a good question. And honestly, out of this entire blog, I’m not quite sure how to answer that. I would like to think that you can have a modern homestead and still be completely self-sufficient, but that’s just not true. Again, completely self-sufficient is the key word here.

You are still dependent upon an electric company to give you electricity. You are still paying that bill every month. Original “off-griders” don’t have cell phones, don’t have electric, they don’t depend on anyone other than themselves for those things. But we don’t live in the renaissance here, people. We live in a modernized society, where sometimes, it’s better to have a cell phone than not.

So, do you have to live off grid to be completely self-sufficient? I’d say yes.

Do you have to live off grid to be completely self-sufficient in today’s modernized society? Absolutely not.

Going off-grid is a great option, but I don’t foresee it as an option for us. Unfortunately, we are just too modernized. I do have a job that requires me to have wi-fi, for the moment. We do have lives that require us to have cell phones. And honestly, we enjoy our electricity. And I don’t foresee us having the money to pay for solar panels anytime soon.

I’m not going to lie, I don’t foresee us ever being completely self-sufficient, but I see us getting almost there, or in today’s modernized definition of it, in the near future (once we have more space).

This is something I think about often, and something I’m asked often. And I hope that it helps someone out there, somehow!

We have to remember that, while we’re trying to get back to our roots, our roots have grown a lot in the past century. We are not the same world we were then, and therefore, homesteading and true self-sufficiency can look a lot different now than it did back then.

Ultimately, you have to decide what’s right for your own life and family. And true self-sufficiency might look a lot different to you than to others. But, by definition standards, this is what it would mean.

 

By: Amy K. Fewell · In: homesteading, prepping · Tagged: homesteading, how to be self sufficient, self sufficiency

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I have personally wrestled with the Lord over this I have personally wrestled with the Lord over this topic for months.

Earlier this year, someone asked why we were still hosting fellowship dinners at our home.
My answer was simple:
“Because I refuse to let the sheep scatter again.”

We have watched people leave churches wounded, lonely, and without accountability. Some find healthy places to land. Others simply go through the motions while still feeling empty and unseen.

And it grieves me. More importantly, I believe it grieves Jesus.
Recently, I finally said to a friend, “I think I need to write this out. God is calling back the shepherds.”

And not in the way you may think.

The word translated as “pastor” in the New Testament is poimēn.

It means shepherd.
Not platform speaker.
Not church-building manager.

Biblical shepherds lived among the flock. They knew the sheep by name. They found food and water, recognized danger, fought predators, rescued the wandering, and understood when it was time to move.

They were gentle, but they were not fragile.
They carried lambs, but they also fought lions and bears.
The rod was not used to beat the sheep. It was used to fight off predators.

The staff was not used to control them. It was used to guide and rescue them. And when the wolf came, the shepherd stayed.

Somewhere along the way, we reduced shepherding to preaching a sermon and managing an institution. But biblical shepherding was always more intimate, costly, discerning, and involved than that.

I believe the Lord is about to (or already is beginning to) reform the ministry of the shepherd within the Body of Christ. And do not be surprised when those shepherds do not look the way the religious institution expects.

They may be farmers, homesteaders, mothers, fathers, or people who are perceived as rough around the edges. They may never stand behind a pulpit.

But they will gather around tables, dwell among the people, protect the flock, confront the wolves, and refuse to let the sheep scatter again.

He is calling back the shepherds.

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(1/2) In 2016/2017, God began raising up leaders i (1/2) In 2016/2017, God began raising up leaders in many spheres of society. Politics, the marketplace, church leadership, and even the food and health system. We didn’t call ourselves leaders. In fact we really didn’t understand what God was doing. Many of us had no idea what was about to unfold and why we were called to this space. We were living our lives to the fullest and had not a care in the world outside of normal everyday life. 

In the fall of 2019, I began to have this ominous feeling. Others did too. Something was coming. Before then I had no idea the depths of what God had called our family to. But when the 2020 pandemic hit, it became evident. 

Suddenly my phone was ringing off the hook with people asking me to buy chickens they could butcher, but they’d never butchered an animal in their life. Others begged us to teach them how to classes. We saw tens of thousands of brand new homesteaders come into the homesteading movement. 

We watched churches shut down, while very few fought against the state to remain open. Some churches went as far as collecting your information every Sunday so they could do “contact tracing” if someone got sick. No thank you.

I sat in private phone calls and meetings with leaders across the nation, conversing about unconstitutional rights and how we can help our communities that God had us leading. None of us knew what to do—we hadn’t been here before. But there was a common thread that held us together and made us realize we weren’t alone. 

Since then, I’ve been told I’m too much, outspoken, ridiculous, a fraud, or “too forward”. But I think most of the people who lead through 2020 into now remember more deeply what much of the world has now forgotten—if it happened once, it will happen again. 

I know the personalities of leaders that will cave to the system. We remove our family from people and groups that follow the rules blindly—especially religious groups. Because if you shut down your church once, you’ll do it again and then turn my family in when we don’t “comply”. 

You think that’s too straightforward? Not being straightforward is what got us in this mess to begin with.

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Oh girl, I feel you. You are walking in God’s will Oh girl, I feel you. You are walking in God’s will with the callings He has placed on your family’s life, and sometimes it’s hard. Notice I said on your family’s lives, not just yours. Just as husband’s calling isn’t just his, it’s also his entire family’s. Why? Because husband and wife are one, in every way. 

I’m specifically speaking, though, to the woman who is both entrepreneur and homemaker. The wife and mother that raises her babes at home while taking business emails and scheduling content—managing people outside of the home and inside of the home. 

It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking “I don’t have time to focus on my home”. But the reality is that your family and your home are your first priority. You CAN do it, you just have to find YOUR rhythm and routine. Coupled with delegating chores and work to children and others. 

It’s a simple process—but it takes consistency. This is the key. 

I have been in such a funk over the last year in regard to my home. Having a baby on top of “all the things” causes chores to pile up. The mountain of laundry in my bedroom that I need to go through is outrageous. Let’s just be honest. But it didn’t get there overnight. 

This week I started making new routines once again. 

Here are my non-negotiable things:

• the dishes get done throughout the day until afternoon (a cup gets washed and put to drain etc). Then one big batch goes into the dishwasher at night or first thing the next morning. Washing throughout the day takes 5 mins. Dishwasher loaded and unloaded by kids.

• the laundry does not set in the laundry room. As soon as it’s done, it gets folded and put away. The day does not go by without me folding and putting away that load. It literally takes 10 mins. Kids help and put their own clothes away.

• Cleaning up after dinner—nothing left on the stove/table/counter until the next morning. Kids help.

• Floors are picked up before lunch and before bed (kids do this, not me). Vacuumed (kids do this).

There are more, but not many. All of these little things throughout the day make it easier to then focus on purging or deep cleaning other rooms during the week. 

What are your non-negotiable routines?
That’s all… That’s all…
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My family has grown to absolutely love homemade bagels. They are so easy and versatile. But there are bagels—and then there are real, chewy, shiny, homemade bagels.

The kind where your teeth sink through a beautifully browned crust into a dense, satisfying center. The kind that can hold a generous layer of cream cheese without collapsing into a soft little bread ring.

And the secret is not complicated. You have to boil them.

That brief boil in honey-sweetened water is what sets the outside of the dough and creates the signature crust that makes a bagel taste like an actual bagel. It is one small, old-world step that modern recipes are often tempted to skip—and it makes all the difference.

This recipe can be made with active sourdough starter for a slower ferment and deeper flavor, OR with instant yeast when you would rather have fresh bagels the same day.

Mix the dough. Let it rise. Shape it. Boil it. Brush it with egg wash, add your favorite toppings, and bake it until the crust is glossy and golden.

It is a simple process, but it produces the kind of breakfast that reminds you why learning to make food at home is worth the effort.

Make them plain, cover them in everything seasoning, add cheese, fold in cinnamon and raisins, or turn them into hearty breakfast sandwiches.

Save this post for your next baking day, and find the complete printable recipe, instructions, troubleshooting tips, and flavor variations on my website.

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