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What is True Self Sufficiency?

March 3, 2016 · In: homesteading, prepping

 

I’ve been on this “homesteading” journey for a few years now. I’m not nearly where I want to be, at all. You can read what my Ultimate Homestead Dream is in another blog post. Homesteading truly is a journey. You have to start somewhere. Some of us want to dive in head first all at once, but that’s just not possible for everyone, like us. I’d love to have it altogether, but the reality is that I don’t.
So for now, I’ll bloom where I’m planted, and make the best of what I do have to work with.
But the question begs to be asked…
What is True Self Sufficiency?
What does it look like?
What does it feel like?
It’s a question I ask myself, and a truth that I remind myself of often.
We are not completely self-sufficient yet, and we aren’t anywhere close to being completely self-sufficient yet. But it’s one of my goals. No, we aren’t going “off-grid”. No, we aren’t “preppers”, though I’ll touch on the different types of “preppers” there are, and your mind will be blown! And there’s nothing wrong with living off-grid or prepping.
So, what is true self sufficiency?
 
 
Feeding yourself completely off of your land and/or sourcing some food from a fellow farmer/homesteader
Believe it or not, even our grandparents didn’t always “grow it all” and “do it all”. Let’s get real for a second. Most of our previous generations depended on the homesteading community to survive. One family excelled in growing wheat while another excelled in vegetables. They traded off goods and services. It was true community. My generation either needs to understand that you’d literally have to work your fingers off in order to “do it all”, or you’ll have to outsource some of your food products. Does this mean from a grocery store? No, that’s not what I mean. True self-sufficiency isn’t relying on the grocery store for what you don’t grow. It’s relying on the community, farmer’s markets, other homesteaders and farmers, for what you can’t or don’t grow or make. Why is that true self sufficiency? Because you aren’t putting your money towards a commercialized business that spreads a thin layer of income over farmers across the world. You are literally pouring money back into your local economy, and essentially, right back into your own wallet.
Breeding your animals for consumption or use, not continuously buying/renting them

For example, if you are breeding rabbits for meat, being truly self-sufficient means you aren’t going out and buying new rabbits for meat consumption. And besides, ew. I want to know where my meat comes from, not just buy it off craigslist.

It means you sit down, have a plan, get your rabbit herd together, and then start breeding your own meat. Sure, breeders die. But that doesn’t mean you have to go get a new one. This means you plan ahead and hold back certain babies from litters so that you can better your lineage and be sustainable. This can easily be done by starting with pedigreed rabbits that come from several different lineages. Knowing the animal and where it came from is half the battle.

The same goes for any animal that you are using for consumption, product, or work. Once you have established your herd or breed, the only time you should be adding new blood into the breeding system is to better your lineage and offspring. This doesn’t necessarily need to be done every single year. Studding out animals is a long time tradition, but it can get expensive. If you have a way to hold back animals, that’s the best self sufficiency option. However, finding another local homesteader who you can trade services with is a great option too.
 

 

 

 

Preserving your harvest
I like to call this the original “prepping”. It’s not what today’s modern society calls “prepping”. It truly is just preserving your harvest from that year. If that defines you as a “prepper”, then society is wrong. I’d like to be referred to as just a smart homesteader trying to live like the older generations.
One of your greatest steps into true self-sufficiency goes hand in hand with gardening or sourcing food from a fellow farmer. You’re going to need to preserve this food, because whether you like it or not, if you don’t have a working green house, you’re not going to be able to grow your food all year long.
This means you learn how to can vegetables, fruit, and meat. It means you learn how to cure meat and other goodies. You create a space for keeping your preserved items, and you utilize them all year long.
 
Herbal remedies and natural living
 
If you’re going to be self-sufficient, then you’re going to need to learn how to take care of yourself. They were healthier because they ate real food. Our ancestors were healthier than we are now, because they did live off of their land and treat themselves. They didn’t run off to find a doctor when they had a common cold. Now, granted, there were certainly deaths from illnesses, but most of them were from impoverished villages or from people already dealing with other ailments. Or simply because they didn’t take care of themselves to begin with.
This is one of the biggest journey’s that I am currently on. One of my main goals this year is to be so self-sufficient in herbal remedies and natural living, that I will, ideally, never have to take my family to the doctor. The reality is that when you live a healthy lifestyle to begin with, you should rarely get sick or have a serious ailment. However, this goes far beyond that. What if my child falls and needs stitches? Clearly, I’m going to rush him to the ER if it’s something serious. But if it’s a cut on his knee that just needs stitching…I can do that at home.
Learning herbal remedies is a necessity in true self-sufficiency. I might ruffle feathers here, but this means you cannot completely rely on essential oils. Sorry, you just can’t. While EOs are ancient remedies, have you learned how to make them yourself yet? Do you personally know anyone making them? I don’t, and I doubt most others do either. It is easier, and healthier for you, in true self-sufficiency to rely heavily on herbal remedies rather than EOs. It is easier to grow herbs and make tinctures than it is to rely on EOs. With that said, a healthy relationship through self-sufficiency with EOs would look something like this—a fellow homesteader makes homemade EOs, and you trade them in dried herbs or pay for their goods.

We have become much too reliant on EOs, and throw our money at large companies praising them for the “best EOs in the entire world”. But if you don’t know what else is out there, how can you make that assumption? If you, yourself, don’t even know how an EO is made, you cannot falsely claim these statements.

Working and living without debt

This is a big one for a lot of people. Becoming self-sufficient should mean you don’t have to rely on bank loans and debt to live your life. Therefore, you work towards paying off all debt. Being truly self-sufficient means you have zero debt, or at least in a perfect world. However, most of us have mortgages to pay. With that said, people are doing it. People are building their own homes over a year or two time period, just so they don’t have a “mortgage” to pay every month. I don’t think we will ever be there. Our goal is to purchase a larger piece of land, and my husband will build our home, but I think we will always have that mortgage debt for at least a few years.

The other side of this is learning how to work. There are a lot of people who will still continue the daily grind of an office job, etc. Yes, that’s an honest living. But will you have time for that once you are truly self-sufficient?  This is where your working skills comes into play. Having a skill that you can offer to others is essential. Can you build things? Can you help others in some way? Or maybe you’ve become so self sufficient that you can buy, sell, and trade straight from your homestead?

Either way, work and living without debt is a major part of being truly self-sufficient.

Off-Grid vs. Modern Homesteading

Do you have to live off-grid to be completely self sufficient? That’s a good question. And honestly, out of this entire blog, I’m not quite sure how to answer that. I would like to think that you can have a modern homestead and still be completely self-sufficient, but that’s just not true. Again, completely self-sufficient is the key word here.

You are still dependent upon an electric company to give you electricity. You are still paying that bill every month. Original “off-griders” don’t have cell phones, don’t have electric, they don’t depend on anyone other than themselves for those things. But we don’t live in the renaissance here, people. We live in a modernized society, where sometimes, it’s better to have a cell phone than not.

So, do you have to live off grid to be completely self-sufficient? I’d say yes.

Do you have to live off grid to be completely self-sufficient in today’s modernized society? Absolutely not.

Going off-grid is a great option, but I don’t foresee it as an option for us. Unfortunately, we are just too modernized. I do have a job that requires me to have wi-fi, for the moment. We do have lives that require us to have cell phones. And honestly, we enjoy our electricity. And I don’t foresee us having the money to pay for solar panels anytime soon.

I’m not going to lie, I don’t foresee us ever being completely self-sufficient, but I see us getting almost there, or in today’s modernized definition of it, in the near future (once we have more space).

This is something I think about often, and something I’m asked often. And I hope that it helps someone out there, somehow!

We have to remember that, while we’re trying to get back to our roots, our roots have grown a lot in the past century. We are not the same world we were then, and therefore, homesteading and true self-sufficiency can look a lot different now than it did back then.

Ultimately, you have to decide what’s right for your own life and family. And true self-sufficiency might look a lot different to you than to others. But, by definition standards, this is what it would mean.

 

By: Amy K. Fewell · In: homesteading, prepping · Tagged: homesteading, how to be self sufficient, self sufficiency

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Last week I talked about capacity, and how some pe Last week I talked about capacity, and how some people just have lesser capacity than others. But also, that there is wisdom in knowing when you should, and should not, have high capacity. Seasons of rest are essential. Maybe you’re a mom and littles and you have to put other things on the back burner. Being high capacity in a delicate season like that will likely burn you out of all the things. Maybe you’ve had health issues and need to lighten the load. But low capacity should never be because you lack self confidence or you’re lazy. 

This week, though, I want to talk about some real truth around capacity. Because the reality is that you can increase capacity, and you can decrease capacity, but you cannot SUSTAIN high capacity. It won’t work. This is where we see what we call “burn out”. 

A wise person will understand that in order to increase capacity higher, you must push yourself to beyond anywhere you have ever been in a season. Eventually, the capacity evens out, if you do it well, and you reach a point and begin to decrease that capacity before expanding again.

You can decrease capacity in order to rest, evaluate, heal, plan, organize, and test yourself.  Or, as in the seasons I mentioned above.

But never, can you ever, forever sustain a high capacity. 

You can have a bigger capacity than someone else. But having a larger capacity and living in “high capacity” are different. Most real leaders naturally have the gift and ability to manage a large capacity. They expand and decrease, and expand again—each time that expansion building out a larger foundation so that building increase happens more quickly each time.

But good leaders know that they can go go go (sometimes for months and years) at that rate, yet eventually they will have to lessen the load so they can recoup before they build up more capacity. The foundation remains, and is ready for them to expand again when they have rested.

Rest. Excel. Rest. Repeat. 
Less capacity. Higher capacity. Less capacity. Repeat. 

It’s all about balance, friends. You can do it. 💛
Alright friends, here’s your Weekly Ag Brief — the Alright friends, here’s your Weekly Ag Brief — the week in food, farming, and freedom. 🌾

🪰 SCREWWORM: A flesh-eating fly is spreading through Texas livestock — 30+ animals now, including sheep and goats. Easy to spot and treat if you’re paying attention. Check your animals, especially newborn navels.

🥬 PARASITE IN THE LETTUCE: Cyclospora has sickened 840+ people across 31 states — a parasite whose only known host is human beings. Officials suspect store-bought leafy greens. Which makes you wonder about all that “biosolids” (a tidy word for treated human sewage) D.C. spent years pushing farmers to spread on their fields. You know what never has this problem? The lettuce in a pot on your porch.

💵 DISASTER $: USDA quietly improved its farm disaster programs — predator losses now paid at 100%, unborn livestock covered back to 2024, some of it automatic. (I don’t take government money — but if you would, it’s there.)

🔬 TESTING: For the first time, USDA/HHS/EPA will test processed foods for heavy metals. Good — now do glyphosate.

🏛️ FARM BILL: The Senate’s back, aiming to mark up “Farm Bill 2.0.” This is the big one. Watch it religiously.

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The thread through all of it? The closer your food is to your own hands, the safer it is.

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There is another heat advisory today, but this mor There is another heat advisory today, but this morning there was the coolest slight breeze on my back as I milked. Autumn is around the corner. In fact, it is already making its way here. The animals know it, the land knows it, nature itself knows it. Why? Because it’s inevitable. 

There are things in life that are simply laws of nature. The sun always rises in the morning and sets in the evening. The moon always has the same cycles. Many parts of the world have four seasons. Rain makes grass and crops grow. Bugs break down organic matter into soil. What goes up must come down. And so on.

There are laws of the Kingdom of God too. My oldest son and I were talking about this the other day. It’s the scriptures that say “if…then”. It’s “if you love Me, you’ll keep my commandments and obey My teachings”. It’s “honor your father and mother so that you may live well in the promised land”. It’s “observe the sabbath, come to Me you who are weary and heavy burdened, and I will give you rest.” It is “if you truly love Me, the Father will love you, and I will manifest Myself to you.” 

If nature knows the laws of nature, how much more should we know the laws of the kingdom? How much more prepared would we be? How much more in sync with Yahweh would we be? How much more discerning would we be? How much more growth would we see? 

And how do we learn these things? Study the word. Don’t just read it. Study it. Find mentors that can teach you. Download the free Logos Bible app and start researching. And pray that the Holy Spirit would guide you in all things.

The seasons are shifting, friends. Not just physically. I feel it more than ever. And for what’s coming, we cannot forsake fellowship. We cannot just read a few verses and call it a day. We cannot just pray before bed and goto sleep. The Lord is calling for watchmen on the wall. He is calling for intimacy with Him in the secret place. There’s a reason it’s called the secret place. Commanders of armies don’t meet at Starbucks. 

Wait on the Lord. Meditate on scripture. Wash your family in the word. Speak life to them, and yourself. Because who knows but the Lord whether the “winter” will be long or not.
🌿 NEW ARTICLE in your Homestead Herbalist Membersh 🌿 NEW ARTICLE in your Homestead Herbalist Membership! 

Meet burdock (Arctium lappa). For 3,000 years it has been one of the most respected roots in the field.

Its actions read like a quiet inventory of God’s design:
• Alterative, the old “blood purifier”
• Lymphatic, to move a sluggish system
• Bitter, to wake up digestion and the liver
• Diuretic and diaphoretic, for gentle elimination
• Anti-inflammatory and antioxidant

And the uses herbalists reach for most:
• Stubborn skin conditions like eczema, psoriasis, acne, and boils
• Lymphatic congestion and swollen glands
• Liver and digestive support
• Achy, rheumatic joints

But you know I won’t hand you more than the science can carry. The strongest human study showed burdock tea lowering inflammatory markers in people with knee arthritis. Most of the bigger claims still live in animal and cell research. Promising, not proven. But sometimes, traditional testimonies outweigh science. That is always the case with burdock.

Read this entire in-depth dive with a HOMESTEAD HERBALIST membership. 

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I did my continuing education assignments for natu I did my continuing education assignments for natural healthcare today while alone at home with my kids while they acted like bouncing squirrels. I stayed up until almost midnight last night putting the final edits on a @homesteadersofamerica podcast episode (coming out tonight or tomorrow!) I responded to emails and texts, paid bills and prayed while I was nursing the baby to sleep. I checked the garden for bugs and produce while getting ready for a milk delivery. And in a few weeks I’ll throw back in homeschooling a 7 and 4 year old (the almost 17 year old is well on his way to being done) on top of other things—housework, fellowship dinners, and all the things not listed.

So when you tell me that you’re busy. That you don’t have time to accomplish anything in your life. That you don’t have time to build relationships and community. Or that you’re stressed and exhausted and always tired. Please tell me that you have utilized your time to its fullest, too. Because as a no-nonsense kind of person with a high capacity, you’re not fooling me if you just have a low capacity to deal with life. 

Your dreams are on the other side of exhaustion. 
Your pay raise or extra income is on the other side of sleepless nights and long hours.
Your better parenting is on the other side of inconvenience.
Your deeper marriage is on the other side of yielding your time and will.
Your refined skills are on the other side of prioritizing your time better. 
Your deeper relationship with Yahweh is on the other side of laying everything else down and making Him first in the day.

The list could go on forever. But at the end of it you’ll come to the realization that every person in the world has the same 24 hours in the day. The difference? Some use those hours more wisely than others, understanding that some seasons require less, and some seasons require more. 

Others want to do the bare minimum, call it a day, and then complain about how mediocre or exhausting their life is.

Pick which one you want to be—and whichever you choose, you’ll be the steward of. It’s a pet peeve of mine—I hope you choose to go higher. I’m cheering for you.

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