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The Modern Day Farm”her”

October 5, 2015 · In: family, homesteading, motherhood, womanhood

Over the past 10 years, and more so in recent years, the face of farming has changed drastically. While it has changed in ways of gmo vs. non-gmo, it has also changed in relational, age and “gender” ways. The average Virginia farmer is now 68 years old, and unfortunately his grand-children aren’t necessarily trying to fill his shoes quickly. But there is an increasing amount of farmers rising up, and not the kind you’d expect.

Today’s farmers are small families or couples trying to make ends meet, but more-so, trying to leave a better world their children. It’s not just that, though. The new face of farming is no longer men, but women — pioneers leading the way to a new and improved farming history. 

Through out history, the woman’s “place” was inside the home, helping her farming husband by preparing meals, taking care of small livestock, weeding the garden, and tending to the household. It was, by no means, an easy task. She didn’t have the luxuries that we have now, such as a washing machine and dryer. But she did her job and did it well. Certainly, she would help him around the farm if he needed her, but her ultimate goal was to raise a family and tend to her house.

The woman’s place on the farm has changed dramatically since then. In fact, sometimes, there’s only the woman running the farm, without a man involved at all. She is, what we like to call in the homesteading world, a modern day farm”her”. I am privileged to know some of these women, and while they will all tell you that it presents its challenges, for the most part, they wouldn’t change it for anything.
There are 564 million women working in agriculture all across the world — 8% of women are farmers, and 11% of men are farmers. We’ve almost caught up to them! In the more “in need of” places of the world,  43% of agricultural labor force in developing countries is female.
I have been asked the question, “why do you always post homestead things when your husband is the one who does the work?” And I laugh. My husband actually doesn’t do a single thing with our animals. He does build things (hutches, coop, etc), but never has daily interaction with the animals. In fact, how insulting of someone to ask that question. I’ve been asked questions like, “why doesn’t your husband help more often?” Why is it such a crazy thing to think that I want to do this!? Other times, I am scrutinized, talked about, and I have even had someone say I must live in my own little world or must be trying to prove something. Are you kidding me?!
 
These silly remarks come from women competing with other women. I’m not sure why we like doing that, but it needs to stop. It comes from women not understanding that not everyone’s lives have to look the same. It comes from men thinking women are “feminists”. I am far from a feminist. Women wanting to be farmers doesn’t stem from rebellion or wanting to act better than anyone (especially not men), in fact, it’s the complete opposite.
And so the question arises,
 
Why are women stepping up and becoming the farmers and homestead”hers”, instead of their male counterparts? 

Here are a few reasons why you are seeing modern day women rising up all across the world.

• Women are more passionate about it.

Yes, we are, in some ways, more passionate about it than men. Men think logically, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But they are thinking “business”. They are still, essentially, the “bread winners” in the U.S.A. They don’t want to take the risk of dropping their paying job for a job that might not make half of what they are making each year at their secure job. But for women, it’s not always about the money, it’s about the passion. Darn those emotions, taking over our logic once again.

We, women, see a need and we want to fix it. There is a longing in our hearts for a more simple time, and this is just one more way for us to make that time a reality in our lives. Not just that, however. We want to leave a better world for our children. We want our children to know what work is, where food comes from, and how to properly farm and raise animals. It’s not just about money to us, because Lord knows, there’s not much of that in small farming.

In a recent article, it said the same,

“The differences between men and women extend definitively to their opinions on farm animals. Polls across the United States and Europe show that women are more concerned about farm animals than men, and are more likely to favor better treatment for them and to support increased protective legislation.” The Atlantic; Agriculture Needs More Women.

• Women embrace their womanhood and the pull to nurture life.

I don’t even have to explain this one. God created women with a heart to nurture and care for things. With so many commercial farms popping up, it just makes us want to nurture and care for things all the more!

• Women feel they are just as capable as men, in many ways.

I know I’m not as strong as my husband, which is why he builds things when I need them and lifts the extremely heavy things (or helps me with them). But there is always one thing my husband has told me. He has always said, “I want you to learn from me, or learn how to do things on your own, so that if I’m not here one day, you won’t have to depend on another man to do things for you.”

Some women might scoff at that and call him selfish, but my goodness, how unselfish could he be. It couldn’t be a more caring statement. He has taught me to do things I would have never imagined I would do. And my body is capable of doing things I wasn’t once capable of doing. In many ways, women can still be inferior to men with their physical capabilities, it’s just how we were created. But when given the proper tools and strength training, we can get the job done.

• Women have a drive to be more self-sufficient.

I don’t know where the drive comes from, but in many cases, women farmer’s say they feel more motivated to live a self-sufficient lifestyle than men do. This drive causes women to take on farming or homesteading. We seem to care more about our food and land than men do in today’s society.

• Men are no longer expected to be farmers.

In the United States, men are no longer expected to provide for their families. And if they are, they are forced to believe that they should be Doctors and Lawyers, or big office money makers. We have been so far down the “women are just as good as men” path that becoming farmers truly is easy for women to be. The unfortunate part of that is that many men (and society, in general) aren’t supportive of women farmers. Whether it’s a sexist issue or simply a logical issue of “we don’t need farmers”, they simply just don’t support it. It is seen as being “feminist” or “trying to do the mans job”. And that’s just not true. Equality in the U.S. is skyrocketing — why shouldn’t women be farmers if the men don’t “man up”? Is it crazy to think that we actually enjoy what we do?!

• Women have “more time” to farm and homestead — but it can be a necessity as well.

It’s true, and yet it’s not. For me, as a work at home mom, it only makes sense for me to be the one farming and homesteading. Not that I have more time on my hands, but I’m here all day long and can get chores done through out the day. It is also true that women would make more time for farming, because, as point #1 says, we’re more passionate about it.

In more deprived countries, women are farming because it’s a necessity. Their men are either working constantly to make ends meet (because let’s face it, they don’t make enough on farming to make ends meet), or they are no where to be found, and it’s up to the woman to provide food for her family while selling what is leftover. A woman farmer is a necessity, not just a passion, as we have in the United States.

In the U.S., women might farm and homestead to make ends meet in their household. Meat rabbits, gardening and canning, and raising livestock for your family might not bring in money, but it might save you money, if you are raising for your own consumption of grass-fed, all natural, organic meat and produce.

• Women are supported by their husbands, and work alongside them.

I feel like I’ve already said this, but it is a point in and of itself. Many women farmers have become farmers because their husbands are farmers. They help. They don’t just sit back and let him do all of the work. Their passion and love for the skill, and for their husband, drive them to be just as good of a farmer as he is. Husbands and wives share their love together. Women plow fields and mow hay. We clean coops and process livestock. We sit up at night while new babies are being born and our husbands rest from a long day. Women farm. Not by ourselves, but alongside our husbands. We are farmers with our husbands, not just by ourselves. We are his help mate, his soul mate, his right hand wo”man”.

© Audra Mulkern | www.femalefarmerproject.org

Whatever it may be, the reality is that women farmers are becoming more and more prevalent in our world. It is not something to be shamed or slandered. It is something to be embraced. In ten years, our world population will have increased significantly. Who’s going to feed all of those people? It doesn’t matter whether a man farmed it or a woman harvested it — as long as the job gets done.

I encourage you to support your local farmer, whether male or female, or both. They encounter the same obstacles throughout their passion, and need encouragement to get the job done.

If you’re a small-scale farm”her” or homestead”her”, then I encourage you to keep doing what you’re doing. Whether you realize it or not, your pioneering has broken through that stereotype that women can’t provide for their families. The Proverbs 31 woman certainly didn’t sit back and let the men do all of the work. She was tending to her household and working in the fields to help feed her family. You are a modern day Proverbs Woman — own it, girl!

By: Amy K. Fewell · In: family, homesteading, motherhood, womanhood · Tagged: farmer, farmher, women homesteaders

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One of the greatest losses of the modern age isn’t One of the greatest losses of the modern age isn’t that we’ve forgotten how to grow food.

It’s that we’ve forgotten how to pass wisdom from one generation to the next.

For thousands of years, children learned by watching. They stood beside their fathers in the field and their mothers in the kitchen. They listened to stories around the table instead of scrolling through strangers’ opinions. They inherited not just possessions, but perspective. They gleaned wisdom, because you cannot buy wisdom.

Today, we outsource almost everything.

We outsource our food, health, and education.
We outsource our elderly.
We outsource discipleship. 
We even outsource our sense of purpose.

Then we wonder why so many people feel disconnected from the land, from one another, and from God’s design for community.

The answer isn’t merely to move to the country or buy a few chickens. It’s to become the kind of person worth learning from.

Live in such a way that your grandchildren will know how to pray because they heard you pray. They’ll know how to steward because they watched you steward. They’ll know how to preserve food, mend a fence, comfort a neighbor, and open their Bible because those things were ordinary in your home.

The most valuable inheritance you can leave isn’t acreage or a savings account.

It’s a life that quietly proved faithfulness is still possible in a world that rewards convenience.
Some of the holiest work you’ll ever do will never Some of the holiest work you’ll ever do will never trend online.
It won’t be standing on a stage. It won’t be gaining followers. It won’t be building a platform or hearing applause.

It might look like pulling weeds before the sun comes up while your children still sleep. It might look like teaching someone to bake bread, praying over a sick neighbor, fixing a broken fence, or carrying another burden that no one else even notices.

The Kingdom of God has always advanced through ordinary acts of faithful obedience.

Noah built.
Ruth gleaned.
David tended sheep.
The disciples mended nets.

Jesus spent most of His earthly life working with His hands before beginning His public ministry.

We’ve been taught to chase visibility when Scripture continually points us toward faithfulness.

The world measures influence by how many people know your name. Heaven measures it by whether the Father knows your heart.

So plant the garden.
Raise the children.
Visit the widow.
Read the Word.
Milk the cow.
Teach the skill.
Share the meal.
Open your table.
Keep doing the quiet work.

Because one day you’ll realize those hidden moments weren’t interruptions to your purpose—they were your purpose all along.

The greatest harvests are almost always growing underground long before anyone sees green above the soil.

(PS—hard to believe this little girl will be FOUR next month 😍 She was just a few days fresh in this photos)
🌼 FEVERFEW (Tanacetum parthenium) I keep finding 🌼 FEVERFEW (Tanacetum parthenium)

I keep finding these little volunteer feverfew plants all over my garden, and I love it.

For centuries, feverfew has earned a place in apothecaries and cottage gardens alike. With its cheerful daisy-like flowers and aromatic foliage, this member of the Asteraceae family has long been valued as a medicinal herb throughout Europe and beyond.

🌿 Botanical Name: Tanacetum parthenium
🌿 Common Names: Feverfew, featherfew, bachelor’s buttons (regional)
🌿 Family: Asteraceae (Daisy Family)
🌿 Parts Used: Primarily the leaves and flowering tops, used fresh or dried.

Historically, herbalists reached for feverfew to support the body in a variety of ways:

🧠 Headache & Migraine Support
Perhaps feverfew’s best-known traditional use is for recurring headaches and migraines. Researchers have identified compounds such as parthenolide, a sesquiterpene lactone that may influence inflammatory pathways and vascular function, making feverfew one of the most studied herbs for migraine prevention.

✨ Inflammatory Support
Traditional herbalists often used feverfew to help calm inflammation throughout the body. Modern studies suggest it may modulate inflammatory mediators, though more research is needed to fully understand its clinical applications.

🤒 Fever & Seasonal Illnesses
As its common name suggests, feverfew was historically brewed into teas or tinctures during febrile illnesses. Its long history explains how it received its memorable name.

💃 Women’s Herbal Tradition
Throughout history, feverfew has appeared in folk medicine traditions for menstrual discomfort and cycle support. Because of its potential effects on uterine activity, it is generally not recommended during pregnancy.

🦴 Joint & Musculoskeletal Comfort
Some herbal traditions have used feverfew for occasional joint discomfort and stiffness, particularly when associated with inflammatory conditions.

🍃 Digestive & General Wellness
Bitter compounds within the herb have historically been used to stimulate digestion and support overall gastrointestinal health

Add this one to your homestead herbalism list to grow in your garden!
I wrote this substack some time ago and then forgo I wrote this substack some time ago and then forgot to finish the series. But it seemed really relevant to share once again. It's the last I'll share on this!

It's one of the most quoted phrases in Scripture—and one of the most misunderstood.
For generations, a single verse has been lifted out of context to build entire doctrines that limit, discourage, or even silence women whom God has clearly called to serve, teach, prophesy, disciple, and lead under His authority. But what if we've been reading Paul's words without reading the entire letter? What if we've missed the historical context, the original language, and the broader testimony of Scripture?
Throughout the Bible, God consistently uses women to accomplish Kingdom purposes. One of the issues is that the American version of church is not the New Testament version and structure.
Deborah judged Israel. Huldah prophesied to kings. Priscilla instructed Apollos. Phoebe served the early church. Anna proclaimed the coming Messiah. Philip's daughters prophesied. At Pentecost, Peter declared that the Spirit would be poured out on sons and daughters, fulfilling Joel's prophecy.
So how do we reconcile those examples with passages like 1 Timothy 2?
The answer isn't found in reading one verse in isolation—it's found in studying the WHOLE counsel of God.
In this article, I take a deep dive into the Greek language behind "authority", "dominion", and "silence," examine the context surrounding Paul's instructions to Timothy, and explore why many common assumptions about this passage deserve a second look. We also look back to Genesis, the design of marriage, mutual submission, and the biblical pattern of accountability within the body of Christ.
The goal isn't to promote cultural trends or modern ideologies.
The goal is to return to Scripture itself.
The Kingdom needs men who sacrificially lead and protect.
The Kingdom needs women who faithfully steward the gifts God has entrusted to them.
If you don't read the whole Book, it's easy to build an entire doctrine on a single sentence.
🌿Comment SILENT and I'll shoot you the link to your inbox!
I have always thought it was so interesting, and s I have always thought it was so interesting, and so telling, when people believe that a woman in a leadership position in the church means she is against men and out of order. 

But many of the same people are ok with a woman in leadership in earthly things, like business, and politics. 

Here’s the reality, men and women were created completely different. We have different emotions, abilities, and giftings. The men I know that are extremely confident in their manhood and burly in nature will immediately tell you they need a woman to help keep them organized. And the women that are confident in their womanhood and feminity will immediately tell you that they need men to help keep them grounded, logical, and not emotionally driven. 

The kingdom was created to be whole—not half. 

So when people say things about women in ministry with a broad stroke, it hurts the body of Christ. Because there is neither male nor female, Jew nor Gentile. 

There are certainly women who should not be in leadership. I have met many of them. They actually do disrespect men and always think men are out to get them. These are the women that we are warned about throughout scripture and the Early church writings. But that does not give the Church the right to broad stroke women as a whole.

That would be like me saying that men are conniving, aggressive, and mean just because I’ve experienced that from a few men in church. But that would be silly and incorrect, wouldn’t it? 

The most healthy church bodies that I’ve been a part of have men as strong leaders with women as complimentary leaders, and never having rule over one another. Who has the final say? Jesus does. Because isn’t that what the church was created to do—seek God in all things? Together?

We must start from the beginning in America. Starting with what the actual early church looked like. When we begin to see that the ministry roles listed in scripture (apostle, prophet, evangelist, pastor/shepherd, teacher) were never governing roles (like elders and deacons), we might simmer down a bit and realize this isn’t as hard as the church Pharisees have made it. 

@thechurchstorehouse has free teachings on this �

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