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The Modern Day Farm”her”

October 5, 2015 · In: family, homesteading, motherhood, womanhood

Over the past 10 years, and more so in recent years, the face of farming has changed drastically. While it has changed in ways of gmo vs. non-gmo, it has also changed in relational, age and “gender” ways. The average Virginia farmer is now 68 years old, and unfortunately his grand-children aren’t necessarily trying to fill his shoes quickly. But there is an increasing amount of farmers rising up, and not the kind you’d expect.

Today’s farmers are small families or couples trying to make ends meet, but more-so, trying to leave a better world their children. It’s not just that, though. The new face of farming is no longer men, but women — pioneers leading the way to a new and improved farming history. 

Through out history, the woman’s “place” was inside the home, helping her farming husband by preparing meals, taking care of small livestock, weeding the garden, and tending to the household. It was, by no means, an easy task. She didn’t have the luxuries that we have now, such as a washing machine and dryer. But she did her job and did it well. Certainly, she would help him around the farm if he needed her, but her ultimate goal was to raise a family and tend to her house.

The woman’s place on the farm has changed dramatically since then. In fact, sometimes, there’s only the woman running the farm, without a man involved at all. She is, what we like to call in the homesteading world, a modern day farm”her”. I am privileged to know some of these women, and while they will all tell you that it presents its challenges, for the most part, they wouldn’t change it for anything.
There are 564 million women working in agriculture all across the world — 8% of women are farmers, and 11% of men are farmers. We’ve almost caught up to them! In the more “in need of” places of the world,  43% of agricultural labor force in developing countries is female.
I have been asked the question, “why do you always post homestead things when your husband is the one who does the work?” And I laugh. My husband actually doesn’t do a single thing with our animals. He does build things (hutches, coop, etc), but never has daily interaction with the animals. In fact, how insulting of someone to ask that question. I’ve been asked questions like, “why doesn’t your husband help more often?” Why is it such a crazy thing to think that I want to do this!? Other times, I am scrutinized, talked about, and I have even had someone say I must live in my own little world or must be trying to prove something. Are you kidding me?!
 
These silly remarks come from women competing with other women. I’m not sure why we like doing that, but it needs to stop. It comes from women not understanding that not everyone’s lives have to look the same. It comes from men thinking women are “feminists”. I am far from a feminist. Women wanting to be farmers doesn’t stem from rebellion or wanting to act better than anyone (especially not men), in fact, it’s the complete opposite.
And so the question arises,
 
Why are women stepping up and becoming the farmers and homestead”hers”, instead of their male counterparts? 

Here are a few reasons why you are seeing modern day women rising up all across the world.

• Women are more passionate about it.

Yes, we are, in some ways, more passionate about it than men. Men think logically, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But they are thinking “business”. They are still, essentially, the “bread winners” in the U.S.A. They don’t want to take the risk of dropping their paying job for a job that might not make half of what they are making each year at their secure job. But for women, it’s not always about the money, it’s about the passion. Darn those emotions, taking over our logic once again.

We, women, see a need and we want to fix it. There is a longing in our hearts for a more simple time, and this is just one more way for us to make that time a reality in our lives. Not just that, however. We want to leave a better world for our children. We want our children to know what work is, where food comes from, and how to properly farm and raise animals. It’s not just about money to us, because Lord knows, there’s not much of that in small farming.

In a recent article, it said the same,

“The differences between men and women extend definitively to their opinions on farm animals. Polls across the United States and Europe show that women are more concerned about farm animals than men, and are more likely to favor better treatment for them and to support increased protective legislation.” The Atlantic; Agriculture Needs More Women.

• Women embrace their womanhood and the pull to nurture life.

I don’t even have to explain this one. God created women with a heart to nurture and care for things. With so many commercial farms popping up, it just makes us want to nurture and care for things all the more!

• Women feel they are just as capable as men, in many ways.

I know I’m not as strong as my husband, which is why he builds things when I need them and lifts the extremely heavy things (or helps me with them). But there is always one thing my husband has told me. He has always said, “I want you to learn from me, or learn how to do things on your own, so that if I’m not here one day, you won’t have to depend on another man to do things for you.”

Some women might scoff at that and call him selfish, but my goodness, how unselfish could he be. It couldn’t be a more caring statement. He has taught me to do things I would have never imagined I would do. And my body is capable of doing things I wasn’t once capable of doing. In many ways, women can still be inferior to men with their physical capabilities, it’s just how we were created. But when given the proper tools and strength training, we can get the job done.

• Women have a drive to be more self-sufficient.

I don’t know where the drive comes from, but in many cases, women farmer’s say they feel more motivated to live a self-sufficient lifestyle than men do. This drive causes women to take on farming or homesteading. We seem to care more about our food and land than men do in today’s society.

• Men are no longer expected to be farmers.

In the United States, men are no longer expected to provide for their families. And if they are, they are forced to believe that they should be Doctors and Lawyers, or big office money makers. We have been so far down the “women are just as good as men” path that becoming farmers truly is easy for women to be. The unfortunate part of that is that many men (and society, in general) aren’t supportive of women farmers. Whether it’s a sexist issue or simply a logical issue of “we don’t need farmers”, they simply just don’t support it. It is seen as being “feminist” or “trying to do the mans job”. And that’s just not true. Equality in the U.S. is skyrocketing — why shouldn’t women be farmers if the men don’t “man up”? Is it crazy to think that we actually enjoy what we do?!

• Women have “more time” to farm and homestead — but it can be a necessity as well.

It’s true, and yet it’s not. For me, as a work at home mom, it only makes sense for me to be the one farming and homesteading. Not that I have more time on my hands, but I’m here all day long and can get chores done through out the day. It is also true that women would make more time for farming, because, as point #1 says, we’re more passionate about it.

In more deprived countries, women are farming because it’s a necessity. Their men are either working constantly to make ends meet (because let’s face it, they don’t make enough on farming to make ends meet), or they are no where to be found, and it’s up to the woman to provide food for her family while selling what is leftover. A woman farmer is a necessity, not just a passion, as we have in the United States.

In the U.S., women might farm and homestead to make ends meet in their household. Meat rabbits, gardening and canning, and raising livestock for your family might not bring in money, but it might save you money, if you are raising for your own consumption of grass-fed, all natural, organic meat and produce.

• Women are supported by their husbands, and work alongside them.

I feel like I’ve already said this, but it is a point in and of itself. Many women farmers have become farmers because their husbands are farmers. They help. They don’t just sit back and let him do all of the work. Their passion and love for the skill, and for their husband, drive them to be just as good of a farmer as he is. Husbands and wives share their love together. Women plow fields and mow hay. We clean coops and process livestock. We sit up at night while new babies are being born and our husbands rest from a long day. Women farm. Not by ourselves, but alongside our husbands. We are farmers with our husbands, not just by ourselves. We are his help mate, his soul mate, his right hand wo”man”.

© Audra Mulkern | www.femalefarmerproject.org

Whatever it may be, the reality is that women farmers are becoming more and more prevalent in our world. It is not something to be shamed or slandered. It is something to be embraced. In ten years, our world population will have increased significantly. Who’s going to feed all of those people? It doesn’t matter whether a man farmed it or a woman harvested it — as long as the job gets done.

I encourage you to support your local farmer, whether male or female, or both. They encounter the same obstacles throughout their passion, and need encouragement to get the job done.

If you’re a small-scale farm”her” or homestead”her”, then I encourage you to keep doing what you’re doing. Whether you realize it or not, your pioneering has broken through that stereotype that women can’t provide for their families. The Proverbs 31 woman certainly didn’t sit back and let the men do all of the work. She was tending to her household and working in the fields to help feed her family. You are a modern day Proverbs Woman — own it, girl!

By: Amy K. Fewell · In: family, homesteading, motherhood, womanhood · Tagged: farmer, farmher, women homesteaders

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Since 2023, I have not been able to shake it. Aft Since 2023, I have not been able to shake it.

After dreams, after long conversations with the Lord, I keep coming back to the same word: something is coming, and God is calling His people to a modern-day Goshen.

Here is what stops me every time. When the plagues fell on Egypt—the hail, the darkness so thick you couldn’t see your own hand—there was one region that still had sunlight and bread on the table. Goshen. 

When God showed Pharaoh a famine was coming, He used Joseph to govern a nation and provide. Goshen was a place of refuge for his family.
 
Same nation, famine, plagues. Two completely different outcomes. The difference was simply that Goshen was where God’s people dwelt. Refuge is the whole point.

During the Exodus plagues, because they happened so suddenly, God providentially sheltered Goshen—the land where His people dwelt. 

But Goshen didn’t happen the same way during Joseph’s time. Years before the famine ever came, God warned Joseph, and Joseph stored up grain through seven years of plenty so his people would eat when the whole land went hungry. 

That is the pattern: provision prepared before the crisis, a people set apart, a storehouse standing ready when the world runs empty—spiritually and physically.

I believe God will once again build both times of Goshen.

So the question isn’t “will this happen again?” The question is, will you be ready? Why is the church not already prepared?

We have built beautiful buildings and polished productions. But when the shelves go bare, what is in the storehouse? 

Will we stand in the same line as everyone else? 

Not me. Not my family. Not the people who sit at my table.

This is Acts 4—land laid down, abundance shared, not one needy person among them. That church had become Goshen, and we can be that again. This isn’t archaic. It’s a blueprint for survival and provision.

The time to build is now. Not out of fear, but out of grace, mercy, and obedience.

Comment GOSHEN to read the entire new Substack…
I walked out one morning, years ago, and found my I walked out one morning, years ago, and found my flock had become mite magnets. Northern Fowl Mites, to be exact.

If you've never dealt with them, I’m so sorry. They feed on your birds' blood, dead skin, and feathers—most often carried in by wild birds passing overhead. And once they've moved in, the feed-store chemicals will burn your chickens' skin before they ever solve the problem.

So I did what our grandmothers would've done. I reached for what the Lord already set growing right on our own homestead.

Here's what actually cleared my flock—no chemicals:

🐓 Strip the coop bare. Pull ALL the bedding, burn it, don't compost it. Leave that floor bare for 2–3 weeks so the mites have nowhere left to hide.

🐓 Treat the coop. Eucalyptus, tea tree, lavender, peppermint, basil + cinnamon bark oils, sprayed top to bottom into every crack and crevice. Dust the roosts with wood ash or DE.

🐓 Dust your birds. Wood ash worked into the skin at the neck, vent, tail gland, and under the wings. I'll take wood ash over DE any day.

🐓 The garlic spray. A Clemson University study found topical garlic wiped out mite infestations in laying hens. My spray pairs it with those same oils and gets applied at night, after they've roosted—when the mites come out to feed.

And yes, your eggs are perfectly safe to eat the whole time. It's applied to skin and feathers, never fed.

God didn't hide your flock's healing behind a chemical label. He set it growing free—in the fields, in the ash of your wood stove, in a bulb of garlic on your counter. That's what stewardship looks like.

📖 The full step-by-step—recipe, treatment schedule, and timing—is on the blog. Comment MITES and I'll send it straight to your inbox.

I'm a homesteader and family herbalist, not your vet—always tend your flock at your own discretion.
🌾 THE MORNING AG BRIEF: What D.C. Did to Your Food 🌾 THE MORNING AG BRIEF: What D.C. Did to Your Food System This Week

Coming out of July 4th, USDA and Congress moved on beef processing, fertilizer, farm labor, and how the federal government defines "regenerative." Some of it matters. Some of it's being oversold.

This week's brief breaks down:

🥩 A new $500M fund for small/mid-size beef processors — packers excluded
🧪 A $500M fertilizer program that won't lower your feed store prices anytime soon
📋 A new USDA complaint portal for producers facing federal overreach
👷 The biggest farm-labor bill in 40 years (not law yet — but watch it)
🌱 The "regenerative ag" executive order everyone's celebrating — and why the word itself is the real story

Plain-language, honestly sourced, no hype either direction. Because staying informed is its own kind of self-reliance.

📖 Full brief on the substack—comment JULY and I’ll send it straight to you.

👇 What stood out to you this week?
If there's one herb worth learning this year, let If there's one herb worth learning this year, let it be yarrow.

It looks like a common weed along the tree line and field—but the Lord tucked an entire medicine chest inside this single flower.

Here's your basic rundown on yarrow (Achillea millefolium):

🌿 Stops bleeding + heals wounds—its most famous use, carried into battle since the days of “Achilles”
🌿 Reduces fever by helping the body sweat it out (diaphoretic)
🌿 Clears excess mucous at the onset of a cold or flu (anti-catarrhal)
🌿 Aids digestion—a bitter herb that stimulates stomach acid and saliva
🌿 Anti-inflammatory + anti-spasmodic for aches and cramping
🌿 A mild sedative that eases anxiety and supports sleep
🌿 Antimicrobial—studied against bacteria like E. coli
🌿 Traditionally used for pneumonia, rheumatic pain, and hemorrhage

⚠️ A few cautions: don't use yarrow until the end of pregnancy (it can cause uterine contractions), don't take it longer than 2 weeks at a time, and know it can lower blood pressure if you're already on medication for it.

"He causeth the grass to grow for the cattle, and herb for the service of man." — Psalm 104:14

Herb for the service of man. He didn't hide our healing behind a prescription counter — He set it growing free in the fields, waiting for hands willing to learn.

That's what empowerment really is. Not fear. Just knowing what grows beneath your feet and how to steward it for the people you love.

On the blog I've written it all out — how to grow and harvest yarrow, every medicinal use, the full safety notes, and my simple tincture recipe so you can keep it on your shelf year-round.
Go learn your yarrow, friend. Then go teach it to your children.

🌿 For the full post + tincture recipe comment YARROW and I’ll send it to your inbox.

I'm a family herbalist, not your doctor—always use herbs at your own discretion.
We were endowed with inalienable rights by our Cre We were endowed with inalienable rights by our Creator. Yet it’s hard to fathom that we live in a country where you are considered a tenant, not an owner, of your property. If you don’t pay personal property taxes, your land will be taken from you. 

There are many reasons why it’s hard to look at America and wonder how we got to where we are today. How a nation that was once so free is now so arguably not. And yet, it is even harder to think that it is still more free than most other nations. 

On the 250th birthday of America, may we richly and deeply set with these things in our heart. Freedom must be fought for. It is not something you declare and then hope happens. It is a process of day in and day out, fighting for freedom. Our founding fathers knew this. 

Men didn’t just sign a document and suddenly they were free. In fact many of them (and their families) lived lives that were not peaceful. They were ridiculed and persecuted. 

Richard Stockton was captured by Loyalists in late 1776 and imprisoned in harsh conditions in New York. His estate, Morven, was looted and occupied. Francis Lewis had his Long Island home destroyed by the British, and his wife was taken prisoner and treated harshly. Abraham Clark had two sons captured and held on the notorious British prison ship HMS Jersey, where conditions were deadly. He reportedly refused to recant his signature even when it might have improved their treatment. John Witherspoon—the only clergyman signer—lost his son James, killed at the Battle of Germantown (1777). Rutledge, Heyward, and Middleton were captured when Charleston fell in 1780 and held as prisoners of war before being exchanged. John Hart had his farm raided and had to flee; his health was already failing and he died in 1779.

These men fought for freedom. They knew the price they had to pay. The question today—250 years later—is this….

How willing are you to fight for freedom? 

May God  direct this nation in the days ahead. May we never forget that it is only by His hand that we are free. And may we all understand that there is a much greater kingdom to be a part of, with a king that rules forever, and His name is Jesus.

God

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